50% of my problems are caused by not knowing where I stand with people. I need people to be blunt and literal and just up front with me. If you don’t like me, if I did something to offend you, if you’re mad at me, if there’s something annoying that I continue to do. I need you to say these things to my face or something. Like I will stop trying to talk to you if it annoys you or, y’know, whatever, but I need to be told.
this ten thousand times
i hate small talk
tell me about how lonely you are or tell me about why you keep waking up in the middle of the night or talk to me about your mom’s eyes and your dad’s laugh. Let’s talk about what’s real to us. I don’t care about the weather and you don’t care about how my job’s going.